Blue Christmas Worship Service – St. Paul & St. James, New Haven

Blue Christmas Worship Service – St. Paul & St. James, New Haven

We are told, by the culture that surrounds us, that the Christmas season is supposed to be a time of good cheer, replete with parties, festivities and merriment. Yet for many, this season is not all it is cracked up to be. It is a time of great stress and high anxiety, and the forced merriment just makes things worse. For some, the season is a time of great sadness, as we struggle with loneliness, loss, despair, or grief.

At this Blue Christmas jazz Communion service, we will bring into sacred space all that we are and all that we feel, and we will lift up our concerns to the One who created us, redeemed us, and sustains us even now. On this holy night, we will remember that God dwells wherever we dwell, in our going out and in our returning, in our joys and in our sorrows. During the dark night of the soul or of the season, God will light the way for us.

Celtic Vespers – St. James’, Glastonbury

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2584 Main Street, Glastonbury. More info
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Celtic Vespers will be offered on Sunday, November 16, at 7 pm. The service, based on the Iona Community, includes prayers and music on the theme of solstice/equinox. The Women’s Choir will sing selections by Rutter, Schram, and L’Estrange. Wild Notes trio returns to perform instrumental music with a variety of engaging offerings. A reception follows the service in the Atrium. You are welcome to attend.

Compline Mass for All Saints – Christ Church, New Haven

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84 Broadway, New Haven. More info
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Join for Compline — the traditional prayer service for the night — followed by a candlelit Sung Mass for All Saints’ Sunday. The Office of Compline and the music of the Mass are chanted by the Christ Church Choir.

All are welcome for this beautiful offering of chant, candlelight, and peace.

Neurodivine: A Worship Service for Those Who Don’t Quite Fit in – St. Paul & St. James, New Haven

If it’s hard for you, your autistic child, or another neurodiverse family member to come to church — whether you fear you’ll disrupt church or because church could disrupt you — then this is the low-key, low-stimulation worship service you’ve been looking for.

Designed and led by a Methodist minister at an Episcopal church, Neurodivine is an interactive service for families, groups, and people of all ages with stories, singing, and simple prayers. All are welcome — come learn how God loves YOU.

(And please spread the word and invite those you know who might be interested.)

Breakfast Church in Celebration of All Angels – Christ Church, Bethlehem

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18 Main St. South, Bethlehem. More info
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Breakfast Church in Celebration of All Angels

Location:  18 Main St. South, Bethlehem, CT

Date: Sunday, September 28, 2025

Time: 10 am

“An informal service with good food, faith conversations, and shared thanksgiving!”

JAZZ SUNDAY

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2584 Main Street, Glastonbury. More info
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Hot Cat Jazz Band returns for their annual appearance at St. James’ Church. The band will lead music during the celebration of the Holy Eucharist on Pentecost Sunday, June 8th, at 10:15 am. The Rev. Canon Kevin Olds will celebrate and preach. We will be joined by the Lutheran Church of St. Mark (Glastonbury). A community breakfast will be served beginning at 9 am. We welcome you to be part of this special celebration.

Celtic Vespers St. James’, Glastonbury

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2584 Main Street, Glastonbury. More info

Celtic Vespers will be offered on Sunday, March 23, at 7 pm. Based on Iona Community worship, the candlelit service will offer prayers for the evening. Special prayers on the theme of darkness to light as we have entered Spring. The Women’s Choir of St. James’ will sing several selections, including a Gaelic Blessing. Wild Notes will provide instrumental music, played by Celtic harp, violin and flute, and concertina. The event is free and open to all. A reception offering fellowship and delicious finger food and drink follows the service.

A Service of Healing and Lamentation: Remembering Lucy and Lois Tritton at Trinity on the Green, New Haven

Remembering Lucy and Lois Tritton: A Service of Lamentation and Healing

 

At Trinity on the Green

Sunday, March 9, 2025, 5:00 PM

The Rev. Dr. Leon Bailey, Guest Speaker

Musical Guests: Salt & Pepper Gospel Singers

 

Two New Haven Episcopal churches, Trinity on the Green and St. Luke’s, are jointly offering a special service to commemorate the 200th anniversary of the last slave auction on the New Haven Green. On March 8, 1825, the sheriff forced Lucy Tritton and her daughter Lois to march through the downtown streets before they were sold.

Near the end of her life, in the late 1880s and 1890s, Lois Tritton was interviewed and stories about her were published in several newspapers including the New Haven Courier, the New York Sun, and the Boston Globe.  Lois shared her life story and her family’s story as told by Lucy.

Geri Mauhs, chair of Friends of the New Haven Green comments, “Lucy and Lois’s story gives us an ‘inside’ view of the many ways the institution of slavery impacted society and the economy. The story also shows how men during the slave era had significant power and could influence and circumvent the law. Lucy and Lois’s story is not just a New Haven story, it is a story with state, regional and national significance.”

 

We invite the public to join us at Trinity Church for the Service of Lamentation and Healing. The service will also be streamed live on Trinity’s YouTube Channel and can be watched during or after the live service. We invite church groups, community organizations, individuals, and families to view the service and participate in discussions about the difficult topic of the continuing legacies of slavery and racism.

 

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Lucy’s Story

In 1844, Lucy Tritton was a founding member of St. Luke’s Church.  Her story begins when she and her parents were stolen from Africa in the mid-1700s. They were brought to the island of St Thomas in the Caribbean. This suggests they may have come from modern-day Ghana, where the Danish king had a slave fort for holding captured Africans before sending them across the Atlantic to St. Thomas, then a Danish colony.

St. Thomas served as a slave depot where African men, women, and children were sold to buyers throughout the Americas. Lucy and Lucy’s father were sold to an Englishman whom she called General Tritton. He took them to London.  We do not know the fate of Lucy’s mother.

After living in London for a period, the Tritton family moved to Nova Scotia. The Tritton family also had a second home in New Haven and attended Trinity Church when in town.  During one of the family’s stays in New Haven, it was revealed that ‘General’ Tritton was not a general.  He was a merchant ship captain. Sadly, in 1790, sadly he drowned at sea when his ship sank during a storm.

One of the highest valued possessions listed in his estate inventory was ‘Negro girl Lucy.”

 

Lois’s Story

Lucy’s daughter Lois was born in 1799.  In 1806, her baptism was recorded in the Cornwallis, Nova Scotia Township Book.  She was listed as “the enslaved ‘mulatto’ child” of Mrs. Tritton.

At some point after Captain Tritton’s death, his widow Sara Tritton needed money. Mrs. Tritton had used Lucy and Lois as collateral for a loan from a man named Jacocks who sold the loan to a man named John Nicoll.  When Mrs. Tritton couldn’t repay the loan, New Haven’s sheriff arranged an auction to sell Lucy and Lois to generate funds for repayment.

It’s noted in a book title, Slave in Canada, that Lois was taken to Connecticut…”to be sold in 1824.”

Before being auctioned on the Green, Lucy and Lois were marched through New Haven’s downtown streets, led by a drummer, shouting, “slaves for sale.”

Documents at the New Haven Museum indicate they were purchased for $10 each by Mr. Anthony Sanford who issued freedom certificates that are in the New Haven Museum. However, the auction on the Green was carried out despite a 1774 Connecticut law outlawing the importation of slaves into the state. In addition, the Connecticut Gradual Abolition Act of 1784, set forth female slaves would become free on attaining the age of 21.  Lois was born in 1799, thus, Lois should have been freed under both laws.

Lois, in her many interviews, never mentioned receiving a freedom certificate.  In her most extensive interview, she states that she was owned by Mr. Sanford and had to work extra hours for several years to earn $600 to buy her freedom. It’s possible that Mr. Sanford considered Lois indentured rather than enslaved. Regardless of the method, Lois was still bound to Sanford for several years. It’s likely that Mr. Sanford paid off the loan that Mrs. Tritton owed, and, unknowingly, Lois repaid Mr. Sanford.

After being released from bondage, Lois continued to work with her mother Lucy as a laundress, a common occupation for African American women.  It was profitable but strenuous and potentially dangerous work, requiring lifting heavy laundry loads, using caustic chemicals, and toting buckets of water. In 1880, Lois was recorded in a genealogical site as being married to Asa Jeffrey.  His 1885 death was recorded in Wisconsin, so he and Lois were no longer together at that time.

Lois had a son, Henry, who was a barber.  Through him, we believe Lois has living descendants.

The Rev. Heidi Thorsen, Trinity Associate Rector, comments, “The story of Lucy and Lois is not a story of uncomplicated freedom. Instead, it is a story that compels us to consider the reasons that Lois wasn’t simply freed at so many points along her journey, including after the auction and so-called emancipation. It is a story of state, regional, and national significance, inviting us to think about our ongoing commitment to the liberation of all people.”

 

*Rev. Dr. Leon Bailey, Jr. is a dedicated leader and advocate for social justice. He currently serves on staff at The Community Foundation for Greater New Haven, where he works tirelessly to support and uplift the local community. In addition to his role at the foundation, Leon is an active Board Member for the Connecticut Council on Philanthropy, contributing his expertise to enhance the impact of philanthropic efforts across the state. He also serves on the board of The Community Healing Network, where he is committed to promoting healing and resilience within communities affected by systemic injustices. Leon’s extensive experience and unwavering dedication make him an inspiring and impactful guest speaker for this Service of Lamentation and Healing.

Ash Wednesday Eve Service for Families, St John’s, West Hartford

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679 Farmington Ave, West Hartford. More info
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Join us on Shrove Tuesday (March 4) at 7pm for a simple, all-ages service to mark the beginning of the Lenten Season. This Ash Wednesday Eve service is appropriate for children and their caregivers as well as adults at all ages and stages. The service is brief (approximately 20-30 minutes) and includes stories from Scripture, an adapted litany, prayers, and the blessing and imposition of ashes. You can also come as early as 6pm and have pancakes first!

Celebrating the Feast Day of Absalom Jones St. Paul’s on the Green, Norwalk

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60 East Avenue, Norwalk. More info
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This year, the Episcopal Church in Connecticut will celebrate the official feast day of the Rev. Absalom Jones, the first African American Episcopal priest on Sunday, February 16, at 4 pm. Join with the ECCT Racial Healing, Justice, and Reconciliation Ministry Network and fellow Episcopalians from across the diocese for a special service of Holy Eucharist at St. Paul’s on the Green, 60 East Ave., Norwalk CT.
The Rev. Dr. Tommy Watson will be the preacher, and The Rt. Rev. Jeff Mello will be the chief Celebrant. Together, we will honor the life and ministry of Absalom Jones and reflect on the enduring legacy of Black Episcopal saints whose faith and witness continue to inspire. Following the service, all are welcome to gather for a festive reception, offering an opportunity to connect, share stories, and celebrate in community. We hope to see you there!
Read more about the Rev. Absalom Jones here: https://www.episcopalcommonprayer.org/…/lesser_feasts….
Set us free, heavenly Father, from every bond of prejudice and fear; that, honoring the steadfast courage of your servant Absalom Jones, we may show forth in our lives the reconciling love and true freedom of the children of God, which you have given us in your Son our Savior Jesus Christ; who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.